We become disappointed if we fail in our efforts, which is a natural phenomenon in human life. Though it is said that failure is the first step to success but when it comes to face the failure we often become frustrated. From our earliest days as children we are taught that failure is bad and we quickly learn that it brings shame, pain, humiliation, and embarrassment. The major fear that stands as the greatest obstacle to success is fear of failure. The problem is not actually failure itself , which can make us stronger and more determined, but the fear itself that paralyzes us from action. We attach fear to things we do not need to have any intense feelings about. Fear of failure is what restricts people to their comfort zone. It is what makes them avoid risk and play it safe as the years pass them by. Henry Ford said failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently. Thus, fear of failure must never be the reason not to try something. Abraham Lincolns
Yesterday I went to my cousin sister’s house, last week she had lost her 35 years old son. When I met her and her daughter-in-law, I was shocked by the way they both stood strong against their loss. In fact, her daughter-in-law even started her job within 8 days of the incident, with full support from the family. In day to day life, we face so many negative, sad and painful situations and these small things or incidences hurt us a lot. In fact, sometimes people even start falling in depression. When we suffer severe sad situations, the moment we accept it, our behavior and thoughts start changing positively. Situation handling in day to day life is an art and if we learn or understand this art, our lives become very happy and peaceful. Acceptance is the first key to situation handling. One of my client’s mother-in-law was creating many issues for her and my client and day-after-day their relation was spoiling. The situation escalated to the point whe